Rainy Day Tarot

I am here to remind you that supporting the people around you doesn't mean giving up supporting yourself. You can support yourself by supporting others.

Seeing every opportunity as a way to connect with them nurtures both you and them. Being fully present in the lives of those you care about shows them that you're reliable and stable (something everyone needs in their lives), which in turn teaches others how to treat you back.

But do not give of yourself to people who only take from you and don't give anything back. Building healthy boundaries with others nurtures your body, mind, and soul. And it models good self-care for those that are learning from you (like your children, or even other adults).

May 24, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you that as long as your heart stays open, you will be rewarded with love right back.

Yes, an open heart is a vulnerable heart, but without vulnerability, we cannot be brave (so sayeth the mighty Brene Brown!! and she's right!)

Keep your feet planted in the earth to give you roots and your heart open to the sky to give you wings ❤

May 23, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you that if you really want something, to achieve a certain goal, that sometimes you need to keep your nose to the grindstone and don't let up until it's done.

But don't keep your nose so close to that grindstone that you sand it right off! Hard work always pays off, yes, but remember to take breaks and enjoy yourself.

Because otherwise, what is it all for?

May 22, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you that success lies in practical ideas that have a good foundation. If you try to build an empire on air, it will fall through the clouds and crash back into the earth.

Pentacles are represented by earth, so instead, start there. Build your foundation, slowly and surely, and eventually, you'll get there.

I am not saying don't take chances, but if you do, research them first. Build smaller foundations. Just always make sure there's something to land on in case you fall.

May 21, 2019 1 comments

I am here to remind you that security is out there, you just have to sometimes be creative in the way you find it.

Maybe you have security and you don't even realize it? Take a look at your life and tell me what's good about it? I bet there's a lot of things you overlook, just as we all do.

Sometimes we are in limbo, and we need to find what makes us feel secure. So make a list. Or a mind map. List all the things you need to feel secure. Then make figure out what steps you need to take in order to get there. You'll get there. Eventually. But the way lies inside of you. So, what are you going to do about it?

May 20, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you to pamper yourself sometimes. And to relish in the luxury that is life.

You don't have to have a lot of money to do this. You can relish in the luxury of a beautiful day by sitting on your porch and just being present in the beauty of the world. Or you can give yourself a "me day" with a yummy bath, some good music, and whatever you have to pamper yourself with.

Even if life sucks right now, you can find a way to enjoy a moment or two of peace. You just have to be willing to be fully present.

May 19, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you to take pride in your work. By doing so, you're showing others that your work is worth it. By breezing over the details, it shows that we don't actually care about what we're doing.

So try this: the next project you do (cleaning the house, building something, starting a project at work, creating art, etc.), take care to really pay attention to what you're doing. Details you'd normally ignore, try giving them as much attention as you can. And see if that changes your view (and other's views) on what you do.

Remember: it's better to do or make less or make something smaller that's done really well then to do something large that half-assed. Aka: quality over quantity.

May 18, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you that patience is always needed when we are building or growing something (kids, a business, a garden, etc.).

A watched pot never boils. So instead, adopt patience and enjoy the moment of waiting. Be present in the moment. Enjoy what you normally overlook.

Life isn't about breezing through the boring moments. It's about living within them, and finding the worth and joy while doing so.

May 17, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you that in good times, we need to share what we have with those who aren't having as a good of time as we are.

Sharing in our fortunes, be it food, money, etc. is one way to give thanks for what you have. Pay it forward. Do whatever you can, within your own means, to help anyone you can.

And don't it for the approval or the thanks, do it because it's the right thing to do.

May 16, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you that sometimes life sucks. Sometimes its really sucks.

But it is only temporary. Just take a deep breath, ask for help where you can, and look for ways to make it better. Sometimes you just have to ride out and other times you can control a little bit.

The trick is to not get caught up in the outcome, because most times we cannot control it. So breathe in and recognize your pain, breathe out and let it go.

May 15, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you that saving money is always better than spending it, especially if you are financially hurting.

Try a "no spend" month where you only spend money on the necessities and nothing extra. Or create a budget. Or a savings plan. Or all of the above!

Saving money today will help you tomorrow.

May 14, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you that sometimes it takes a village in order to get something done.

So delegate! You won't win the "best in show" award for doing everything yourself. Usually, you'll get the "too tired and overworked" award instead.

So, if you can cooperate with others, the job will get done 10x times faster and probably better than doing it alone.

May 13, 2019 No comments

I am here to remind you that even though life can be a struggle at times, you can move things around in a way that suits you better than it does now.

Sometimes we live our lives borrowing from one to pay another, but usually it's only temporary and we still get by. So don't fret.

If you find you're juggling too much, find a way out of some of the responsibilities you've taken on.

May 12, 2019 No comments

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