Be generous.  Be kind.  Help others out.  Donate.  Know that love isn't just saying "I love you".  It's making the choice every single day to choose the right words and actions to honor that special someone in your life.  Be the parent you wish you had or needed.  Be the spouse you want to have.  Be the sibling you wish you had.  Know that successful human connection is 99% how you interpret the other person's actions, rather than how they actually act.  Don't allow people to hurt you or your family, but also forgive when the person is worth forgiving.  Accept that everyone has faults.  Even you.  And that's okay.  We just all need to do better next time.